Sunday, March 22, 2015

No Self-confidence, No Leadership


Self-confidence is one of skill that will guide you to be a good leader. You can use it as a tool to show with people around you that being confident will help you to reach your goal. Most of the people stating that when a leader has a strong self-confidence he or she will make it far until he/she succeed.

All the time I say that, “Trust yourself, before you trust others” because I’ve learned that if you don’t trust yourself, nothing will happen to you. Before, I was afraid to be a leader and I don’t have guts to handle a group since I don’t want to take the risks. I don’t want to repent myself for the negative results when it comes to group works.

Imagine that you are a team leader in one company, and you don’t trust your capabilities to do your work as a team leader. Do you think that your co-workers will trust you if they see that you are not confident enough to be their team leader? No, isn't?

One day I realized that I should be assertive in myself because I wanted to share my experience with others that before I was afraid to be a leader, but when I tried it many times, I've build-up and taught myself to be assured.

There is a video that I would want to share to help you to build up your self-confidence.


(Roberts, 2012)

As Andrew says, when you build your self-esteem it will benefit to your life because you always think in progressive ways. He also says, showing others that you’re determined it will inspire them. Isn’t amazing if you’re able to motivate others by showing them your high self-esteem?

At this time, if you really want to be a good role model or leader, show to others that you can guarantee  that you’re brave, risk taker, and able to make a decision without any fear and full of confident.

Thank you for reading. I hope you find it useful.

Reference
Roberts, A. (2012, September 03). Retrieved from Gaining Self Confidence - 5 Steps To Better Self Esteem: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rure8FJY0yM




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